Finding the Right Divorce Mediator

Finding the Right Divorce MediatorIf you and your spouse have decided to end your marriage without going to court, finding the right divorce mediator is your next step. Here at Elizabeth Henson, Attorney Mediator, P.C. in Denver, I’ve helped numerous couples who have decided to take control of their own futures. I realize that finding a mediator might feel overwhelming. Today, I offer a few ideas to help you find the right professional to guide you through the process.

Offers a Practical Approach

A good divorce mediator can provide a practical approach to your situation. This means that they’ll listen to your opinions and engage both parties in a discussion about how the court may view your situation and certain decisions. Ultimately, a mediator can help you arrive at creative solutions when needed and find results that both parties find agreeable.

Acts as a Neutral Party

It is important that you feel like the mediator is a neutral third party who is not fighting for one side’s best interests, but focused on the best interests of everyone, including children. You want both sides to feel that his or her views are respected in the process. A mediator should also encourage you to have your agreement reviewed by a  divorce attorney on your behalf before you sign it.

Provides Education

When finding the right divorce mediator, make sure they’re able to help you understand the mediation and legal processes. They should encourage you to ask questions, as well as provide a thorough and clear response.

Expert in Divorce Mediation

You want a professional who is an expert in divorce mediation and is trained specifically in helping separating spouses find common ground. Your mediator should be able to assist everyone in remaining cooperative, focused and calm. Here at Elizabeth Henson, Attorney Mediator, P.C.  in Denver, I offer the education, information and guidance needed to help parties work through a difficult process with dignity and self-determination.

Understands Complex Issues

The best divorce mediator will be able to provide you with guidance for many situations. If you have children, you could want a mediator who is going to be able to help you through some potentially complex family dynamics. If your finances are complicated, you need a mediator with experience in such matters. While they won’t be accountants, they should be aware of the impact involved in assigning assets and debts to one or the other party.

Expert Troubleshooter

Mediation can be a complicated process, so it’s important that your mediator is a highly effective problem-solver. Many divorce mediations require a great deal of conflict resolution, so your mediator should be effective in helping you and your spouse find fair solutions to problems and disagreements.

Good Rapport

Divorce mediation can have far-reaching consequences for your future, making it important that you feel comfortable with the divorce mediator you choose. You should feel that you can trust her and that you will be listened to and treated fairly during the process.

Finding the right divorce mediator in Denver may help you and your spouse more amicably move forward in your separate lives. By keeping your private life out of the court system, it’s often a healthier situation for both parties, as well as any children involved. If you need a divorce mediator, please contact Elizabeth Henson, Attorney Mediator, P.C. I look forward to getting to know you and helping you through the process of mediation.